Applying the Lord's Prayer
Submitted by Guy Roberts on June 16, 2009 - 2:46pmPray the Lord's Prayer with your child at night. It doesn't matter how old they are and what your other prayers might be as part of your routine; pray the Lord's prayer with your children. Right now our son is only 16 months and we have been doing this for about three months. At first he looked at us like we were weirdo's because we were speaking the same words together as we prayed it to him. But now he bows his head and settles down. Even though he doesn't understand what the words mean, he is learning that this is a time to be reverent, to be still before the Lord. This is an awesome lesson to be teaching your children.
If you have an older child pray the Lord's prayer and pick a part each night to discuss with them either before or after you pray it. For example the part of the Prayer, "Thy will be done... " Talk about how the Father's will is always done and that His will was to make your little one his child and to take care of him or her. If you are not sure what to say read Luther's catechism as it breaks down the Lord's prayer section by section. He will give you plenty of ammo to turn into childrenese. Most important in all of this is that by teaching them what each part of the prayer means, you will be teaching them how and what to pray for the rest of their lives.
As your child get's into their teenage years it is not only entirely appropriate to teach what Jesus is commanding us to pray in each petition, but to apply it to the lives they are living outside of your control. For example, when a teen is dating someone, the Lord has something to say about this as far as what His will is. That Lord asks us to ask him to provide everything when he says, Give us this day our daily bread (in this case a potential spouse). Lastly that the Lord desires all of us to be kept from temptation which is why he instructs us to pray, Deliver us from Evil.
My encouragement to you is to talk about this with your teens before you pray together and then pray the Lord's prayer with them. Don't let these opportunities to apply what Jesus has commanded us in the Lord's Prayer to pass or to be seen as just repetitious words, but rather help your teens see the Lord's prayer as simply what it means to live life as one of God's dearly beloved children.